Hello there!
Poor Dave is knackered today. At 5am, one of my ex's called twice and woke us up! What is up with people? Surely it's a given that at 5am on a Friday morning I'll be in bed?! I didn't answer the calls. I never do. He's been calling me again ever since my book came out. Basically, when the book came out, he read it (and obviously read his chapter) and called me up to say "sorry" for the way he treated me. I accepted the apology and agreed to stay in touch. We had some nice chats as friends after that for a while and then the middle of the night phone calls started. It's been going on for quite a few months now. Last week he called me at 3am and I didn't answer. The next day I woke to a load of texts asking why I wasn't talking to him and I replied saying that if he called at a normal time, instead of the middle of the night, then I would talk to him. I thought he would get the message but obviously not. Last night he called at 4.30am and again at 5am. I then got two more calls from a private number just after 5am. The reason I don't put my phone on silent at night is that I worry there might be some sort of emergency and nobody would be able to reach me if my phone wasn't on. It's so bloody annoying though that people don't have any consideration for others. Obviously he was out and drinking and maybe even assumed I would be out on the town too, but still, if he wants a chat, he can call me in the daytime or early evening?! He's sent me a load more texts today asking if I'm ok and if I'm in a mood with him (he thinks I'm in a mood cos I didn't answer the phone - he doesn't realise that actually the only reason I'm in a mood is that he phones at such ridiculous times). I'm happy to stay friend with him and have no grudge against him whatsoever (even though it was him who did the dirty on me). He's apologised and that's good enough for me, I just wish he could be a friend in the normal sense of the word and not in a weird annoying calls kind of way.
Kenzie called last night. At a normal time. He wanted to know if I was joining him at our local club cos he'd heard I might be going. Actually I was meant to be going with Alex, but I ended up waiting for Ricardo to come over (who then didn't turn up). Kenz wanted me to go and have a drink with him but I told him to come round in the day time soon to see my new house instead. I'm always happy to hear from Kenz. I love him like a brother; God help anyone who ever hurts him cos they'll have me to answer to! I think (and hope) that Dave knows there is no threat there with Kenz. I know he's an ex but nowadays, he's like my little brother and I will never not talk to him. If a boyfriend tried to make me stop talking to him, I'd sack them off rather than Kenz. Kenzie brightens up everyone's day who knows him. He's such a joy to be around and he's a true friend. He's one of the few people (apart from my friends of old) that knows the real me and would be there for me like a shot if I needed him. Eventually, I'd like Dave to be friends with him too. I know that's probably asking a lot, but honestly there are no feelings there apart from loving him like I love Jordan or Lauren. We'll see anyway. I'll let you know what happens.....
Just sitting here with Rusty watching the lunch time news and the little girl that me and my brother have raised money for in the past is on. Remember from previous blogs Ellie May? And remember my brother doing gigs to raise money for her? Well, she's now got her new legs and from the look of things, she's doing brilliantly. Last week, we had a meeting with one of the girls who organises charity events to raise money for Ellie and we have come up with a great idea. My brother and his band are going to throw a gig in a club that holds 300 people. The fun part is that the whole band are going to play in their boxer shorts. Also, any special guest musicians (like Rusty or my Dave) who get up to play, also have to strip off. It's going to be like The Full Monty but with great music. Jord is really popular in Brentwood anyway with the girlies and has a very large following for the band already. If we promote it right, this could be huge We'll charge an entrance fee to get in and also do an auction on the night. We might auction off the boys for a day ie. Jord can come to your house and cook dinner for 8 people or Rusty can come and do your gardening or whatever. It'll raise good money and also be tons of fun. We're also thinking of organising our own festival in the grounds of my mum and dad's house. We can have four or five bands playing, a burger van, drinks tents and everyone can bring tents to sleep in. if we do it in the summer, then it can be a two day event and it'll be the nuts! Charge everyone a tenner or twenty quid to get in and all the money goes to Ellie May. I'm all excited. It'll give us all something big to focus on.
Rusty is now going to help me get the few remaining things out of the flat to bring to the new house and after that we are going to get something to eat. Russ was supposed to be getting his hair cut tonight but his hairdresser has just blown him out. He's going to have to look like Marge Simpson for a little while longer. Never mind Rusty.....
I'm off to do some work, if I don't write again today, have an amazing weekend. Get up to lots of mischief and make sure you get a snog cos it feels great!
Lots of love
Merry Friday
xxxx
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